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Tuesday 24 January 2012

Trust.

Today, I was told that I couldn't be trusted, based on my age. I've never been dishonest. I've never lied or cheated. However, a woman took one look at me and suddenly decided I was untrustworthy.

Trust is such a huge deal. Trust in yourself, trust in your partner, your friends.. and sometimes even complete strangers. How do you know who to trust? That inkling that you get? Is that enough to put everything on the line? To someone you barely know?Is it possible to rely on a complete stranger?How do you trust again after someone has broken your trust? When another person's actions have completely shattered your ability to trust, how can you trust again?The way people treat others is a great indicator of how they will treat you. If a person tells you someone else's secrets, they are most likely to tell someone else all of yours.

To trust can be so hard.. so how do you become trustworthy? You know that people should be able to trust you... but they still don't want to. Perhaps this is based on a past experience they have had, or that their trust was broken before. But that doesn't mean that they can't trust you. So how do you appear trustworthy? So that people don't look at you and immediately think you're no good?

WELL... i googled the subject and.. there's not much you can do. Except love yourself and what you do. Do what you say and say what you do. Have good intentions. Be confident in yourself. Have good results and outcomes in what you do.

hmmm. In other words, BE YOURSELF and don't care what other people say or do on impulse. No matter who you are, or what you look like, some people just won't bother getting to know you. And that's their problem. Not yours.

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